Stop looking for a mirror in other people.

A public personal note.

Just because someone says facts in a way that hurt my feelings doesn’t mean that they are wrong. Regardless of the tone that they use, if a fact is a fact — it will remain a fact despite how much it hurts me.


Sometimes I will be irrelevant. And that’s okay.
Not everyone will or has to care about my feelings, I am not that important to them.
And that’s okay.
They are not that important to me either.
And that’s okay, too.
MOVE ON.


Version 2

Just because someone says facts in a way that hurt your feelings doesn’t mean that they are wrong. Regardless of the tone that they use, if a fact is a fact — it will remain a fact despite how much it hurts you.


Sometimes you will be irrelevant. And that’s okay.
Not everyone will or has to care about your feelings, you are not that important to them.
And that’s okay.
They are not that important to you either.
And that’s okay, too.
MOVE ON.