Disclaimers

This blog is written in a journal-like style. It is not a legal guide, medical hub, or professional resource. While I sometimes include references, notes, or case links, the content ultimately reflects my own experiences, interpretations, and interests.

Author’s Perspective

Most writings here are opinionated by design. They carry my own biases, preferences, and lived experiences. This is intentional and part of the character of the blog.

Informational Pieces

Some entries aim to be purely informational. These follow self-created guidelines intended to reduce personal bias and keep the focus on accuracy. Where possible, I reference sources to give readers context on where information was drawn from.

AI-Enhanced Writings

Certain posts may be refined with AI assistance. When used, AI is prompted with strict rules—such as “no politics,” “no personal opinions,” and “no suspicious links”—to avoid misinformation and maintain a clear, factual tone.

Disclaimers

Nothing published here is medical or legal advice. For any health, safety, or legal matter, consult a qualified professional.
Topics covered are selective and interest-based. They do not attempt to give a complete or balanced view of any field.
Accuracy is a goal, but errors and omissions are possible.

Focus of This Section

This section of the website is not about shock value or personal advertising. It exists to lay out and share how and why I have concluded my non-negotiable terms, boundaries, and expectations when it comes to intimacy, relationships, and compatibility. Clarity here prevents misunderstanding, projection, or wasted time. Readers discretions is adviced.

Blog Posts

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NDA's

Mutual Confidentiality & Consent Agreement

Silence is Not a Contract.

The Instrument of Silence: A Report on NDA Misuse, Legal Vulnerabilities, and Victim Protection Strategies

Romantic partnerships

Relationship & Union Agreement

Psychological, Legal, and Developmental Safeguards Before Marriage and Parenthood

Part VI: Financial Modeling of Unpaid Household Contributions

Sexual health

A Guide to Understanding, Preventing, and Treating STIs, STDs, and HIV

Currently working on:

Romantic Partnerships:

Education - Part VI: Financial Modeling of Unpaid Household Contributions

New Section

Personal Safety & Risk-Awareness Framework

This framework will be focused on:

Intro section / Disclaimers: Clarifies the guide's purpose as a harm-reduction and risk-awareness framework, explicitly stating what it is and is not.

Pre-Engagement Safety Foundations (Required Before Anything Else): Focuses on mandatory initial steps, including personal risk assessment and explicitly defining consent and boundaries.
Online Dating & Digital Intimacy Safety: Provides strategies for identity protection, mitigating explicit content risks, and preparing for extortion in digital interactions. In-Person Meet-Up Safety Plan (Structured & Automated): Details a structured, automated system for pre-meet documentation, trusted contact briefing, and post-meet safety protocols.
Adult Content: Reality, Risks & Misconceptions: Examines the financial, social, and career risks of the adult content industry, along with power imbalances and alternative paths.
Lived Experience & Testimonies Section: Shares anonymized personal stories from individuals who have left or are currently in the industry to offer real-world perspective.
Safety Plan During, After, or Long After Adult Content Participation: Outlines critical steps for evidence preservation, digital and legal response, and addressing child-related legal risks post-participation.
Mental Health & Long-Term Wellbeing: Addresses the psychological impacts of participation and identifies support systems for trauma-informed care and identity reclamation.
Exit, Recovery & Future Safety Planning: Provides a roadmap for reducing one's digital footprint, managing career transitions, and establishing ongoing safety maintenance.
Appendices & Tools: Lists practical supplementary resources such as safety plan templates, setup guides, and legal/nonprofit directories.